Saturday, December 25, 2010

Richie Rich .. (3)







Never mind he flew her on AlJazeera for their honeymoon, particularly on the red eye flight to save even a couple of more dinars.

Never mind she was promised a month of heaven, and all she got was one lousy week in hell.

Never mind he refuses to put food in the fridge, asks her to buy her own groceries and then raids what she got.

Never mind he uses her car to cut down on the use of petrol in his.




The breaking point was when he said:


"I bought you with my own money"
انا اشتريتج من أهلج بفلوسي


La jad wallah?!!
Laish ehya shafat mn floosik shy ya mo7taram!!?


Tara elmahar mn 7aq elzooja shar3an


والرجال قوامون على النساء

هذا إذا كنت أصلا ريال



Anyhow, she's asking for a divorce now,
and he became even uglier, nastier, lashing out at her and her family, asking them to give back every fils he spent on her!!



And to reply to that, I refer to the Holy Quran:



وَكَيْفَ تَأْخُذُونَهُ وَقَدْ أَفْضَى بَعْضُكُمْ إِلَى بَعْضٍ وَأَخَذْنَ مِنكُم مِّيثَاقًا غَلِيظًا
سورة النساء، آية 21



والاستفهام للتوبيخ وللإنكار في قوله: (وكيف تأخذونه) أي بأي وجه (وقد أفضى) وصل (بعضكم إلى بعض) بالجماع المقرر للمهر (وأخذن منكم ميثاقا) عهدا (غليظا) شديدا وهو ما أمر الله به من إمساكهن بمعروف أو تسريحهن بإحسان




But I know, and you know, and everybody else knows, that her family is very caring, and too proud to go to court. All they want is for their daughter to be safe back to their arms again. They will give you all want. o 7asbya Allah wa ni3ma alwakeel.


Monday, December 13, 2010

Richie Rich .. (2)







During the melcha, there were some warning signs, but she was too happy to notice them:


At the restaurant:

"I will order the ceasar salad and Veal Milanese ", she said to waiter.
"Nothing for me", he quickly added.
"Don't you want to eat anything? "
"I had a big lunch and I'm quite full"


When the order came, he ate half of her plate
"HmmMmmm, very delicious" !!!


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More:

**Honeymoon trip was cut short to one week only because he claims long honeymoons are boring and make no sense !!


**She needed to fuel her car and she didn't have any cash with her, she asked him for money and he gave her 3 kd. "Bl marra roo7ay se7bay floos o reddeehom le", he instructed while handing her the money.


**At their place, he told her that whatever groceries she needs, she can buy with her own money. He doesn't want her to touch his food so he divided the fridge!!
Mind you that doesn't stop him from raiding her own section!!



Seriously?!!
Can any one live like this???


All of the above examples are just a few of what I heard. The girl is shocked beyond words as each day passes by she discovers a new meaning to the word cheap.


Wallah 7aram,,
What is the value of money if you can't use it, or spend it on your loved ones??!!!!


She is trying to suck it up but stingy-ness, as my mother say, has no cure!

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Regarding your guesses, and comments on the previous post:
The second anonymous, Noodie and Even Sweeter got it right. And Blah masha Allah knew 3ala 6ool once she read what my mother said.
I also give Anonymous 7 credit for knowing it was something related to money.

Nora, and the rest of you guys, well, there were some pretty wild guesses.
Better luck next time ;*


Sunday, December 12, 2010

Richie-Rich .. (1)








Remember my infamous question in my very first post?
The one I un-ashamedly asked dad before I say yes to X?


Now I know how horribly it could have all gone wrong.
*shudders*

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She is a delicate flower, the apple of her parent's eye, a ray of sunshine who is loved by all who knew her.

She was sick at an early age, but with a couple of surgeries, and long therapy, she is the vision of health today. Yet, she still holds a tender place in the hearts of her family for what she went through.

Her family doesn't own much, But the love they lavished on her was priceless. These people are geniune, kind and caring. That's why they wanted to make sure that the guy who asked for her hand in marriage is more than suitable for their princess.

They asked about him, probed here and there, and asked some more. And the feed back was nothing short of raving reviews.


And to top it all, he was said to be filthy rich!


So naturally, they said yes.

The girl got to know him and fell hard for him. During the engagement days she was walking on clouds. Everything was so perfect and all who knew her couldn't be happier for her.

"Akheeran ra7 tet-hanna", a family member told me with tears in her eyes. "Allah daz laha elly e3aweth-ha 3an elly kel elly shafetah"



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That was 6 months ago.
Funny what you can discover in just 6 months!!



He was filthy rich allright, but he was ----- !!!!


Can you guess?

Friday, December 10, 2010

اغتصاب بأمر المحكمة



جملة صغيرة، بذات عنوان البوست، مرت علي في شريط إخباري

استفزتني

بحثت أكثر حتى وصلت إلى القصة كاملة
وياريتني ما وصلت
ولا قريت
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بيبي - فتاة باكستانية عمرها 18 عاما


بأمر من محكمتهم القبلية
سحبوها من وسط بيتها
وعلى منصة عالية بوسط الساحة وضعوها

وتحت مرأى حشد من الناس تجاوز الألف
أحضروا أباها وأجبروه أن يكون بالصف الأمامي

واغتصبوها




أربعة رجال

من أعضاء المحكمة نفسها
صعدوا المنصة


مزقوا ملابسها
وهي ترتجف خوفا.. وخجلا


وتحت أعين الناس تناوبوا عليها
واحدا تلو الآخر
اغتصبوها

مرة

مرتان
ثلاث مرات
وأربع



لم يرحموا ضعفها، لم يرحموا بكاءها وصراخها
فهم برأيهم يطبقون عقاب المحكمة


لم يرحموا ذل الأب، لم يرحموا هوانه بين الناس وهو يستجديهم
فهم ينتقمون لشرفهم




ماذا حصل؟
مالجريمة الشنعاء التي لأجلها استحقت بيبي هذا العقاب الهمجي؟




أخو بيبي
الطفل البالغ من العمر 11 عاما فقط
تمت رؤيته برفقة فتاة من قبيلة أخرى
قبيلة تفوق قبيلة بيبي مستوى

ولهذا
ولهذا فقط

استحقت أسرة بيبي أن يحل عليها العار


ولهذا فقط، تم القرار أن تنتهك انسانية فتاة ليس لها ذنب
وأن يطأطأ راس والدها
ويعيش أخوها يتجرع المر على ما تسببه لأسرته


لم يكن الأخ مدركا أنه بمجرد تواجده مع تلك الفتاة
قد أشعل نار الغضب في رجال قبيلتها

لم يشفع له صغر سنه من رغبتهم بالانتقام من الإهانة التي يزعمون أنه وجهها لهم


وبالرجوع إلى المشهد المؤلم، الوحشي لاغتصاب بيبي
فبعد الانتهاء منها
وإمعانًا في التجريح


أجبروها أن ترجع إلى بيتها
مشيًا
وهي عارية

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الخبر هزني من الأعماق

بشاعة ما بعدها بشاعة
تخلف
إجرام

بكيت
بكيت ودعيت لها من كل قلبي
ودعيت لأبوها، وأخوها

لا حول ولا قوة إلا بالله
وحسبي الله ونعم الوكيل

Thursday, December 9, 2010

قمتة







الحياة الديمقراطية هي سبيل الشعب الذي يحترم إرادته في الحياة الحرة، ولا كرامة من غير حرية، ولا حرية من غير كرامة

الشيخ عبدالله السالم



Monday, December 6, 2010

Hatha alazrag 7beebi






مبروووووووووووووووووووووووووك



يا حلوكم يا الازرق

غسلتوا جبودنا وفرحتوا قلوبنا



أحبكم





انزين ممكن أحد يفهمني ليش الكاس فضي مو ذهبي؟؟


Friday, December 3, 2010

What a Great Yesterday ..






... أمس


ولمدة ثلاث ساعات


قلبي كان معلق بريولهم




وبيد الخالدي









وبيضووها


وفرحوا قلوبنا العطشانة







مبرووك حبايبي

مبروك يالأزرق

مبروك يا شعب الكويت




وان شاء الله الكاس يرجع لنا بعد طول غياب


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كلي اعتزاز


ويملؤني الفخر









بانجاز دولة قطر


في استضافة أولمبياد 2022





والشيخة موزة


ونعم المثال

ونعم القدوة


للسيدة الأولى

مو بس لقطر




أعتبرها السيدة الأولى للخليج



برافو قطر
لكم مني تحية كبيرة
كلها حب، وتقدير، واحترام






Wednesday, December 1, 2010

CRASHING @ Ye7lamoon (2)




I had a major accident once. O mn ra7mat rabbi 3alay enkitab le 3omor yideed.


It is absolutely horrific how in one minute you are driving and humming to a song, and the next minute while the song is still playing, you are laying flat on the street.


I wrote about it a long time ago, but got distracted and never got to finish it, so here goes:


For CRASHING @ Ye7lamoon (1), please click here.
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I remember reaching the hospital and being carried inside. Doctor and nurses came to check my vital signs and by then I could slowly open my eyes. I looked around but my heart hurt and my vision was foggy.


I want to see them, the men who rescued me..
I want to see him, the guy who sat at the back seat with me ..
Ya rab ye6la3 7elo .. <-- Abbaiih na3am? SHAKO?? mn sijjy wallah?! 7addy afashil



The doctor ordered a full body scan. The nurse wheeled me to the X-ray room and started helping me un-dress. But suddenly my heart sank as I remembered something and with burning cheeks I politely asked her to wait outside and I would get into the hospital gown all by myself. I wasn't shy or anything, infact I was glad for her help as my body was so sour I can barely lift a finger. The thing is I remembered I wasn't wearing matching undies.
*blush*


The X-ray took a long time, and when i was done and they wheeled me out, mom and dad were already waiting for me. I can never forget Mom's anxious face, and dad's face crinkled in worry. I felt so bad putting them through this. X was away on a business trip,


No sign of the guys- my heroes.
I was half disapponted for i really wanted to thank them, and honestly half glad because 7addy meftashla menhom.


I later learned by hospital staff that when they brought me over, they had patiently waited outside until my parnets reached the hospital, then they quietly disappeared.
Allah ya7fethkom wain ma kintaw ya rab *hearts*



Anyhoo, be fathl Allah I was ok. Bruises all over my body but nothing major wel7amdlellah. All I lost was my car which was damaged beyond repair. And a couple of shreds of diginity whenever I remember this story.


And that's the end of that!



Now ladies, there's an important lesson to this story here:
Be safe, drive carefully, aaand never mis-match ;)