During the melcha, there were some warning signs, but she was too happy to notice them:
At the restaurant:
"I will order the ceasar salad and Veal Milanese ", she said to waiter.
"Nothing for me", he quickly added.
"Nothing for me", he quickly added.
"Don't you want to eat anything? "
"I had a big lunch and I'm quite full"
When the order came, he ate half of her plate
"HmmMmmm, very delicious" !!!
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More:
**Honeymoon trip was cut short to one week only because he claims long honeymoons are boring and make no sense !!
**She needed to fuel her car and she didn't have any cash with her, she asked him for money and he gave her 3 kd. "Bl marra roo7ay se7bay floos o reddeehom le", he instructed while handing her the money.
**At their place, he told her that whatever groceries she needs, she can buy with her own money. He doesn't want her to touch his food so he divided the fridge!!
Mind you that doesn't stop him from raiding her own section!!
Seriously?!!
Can any one live like this???
All of the above examples are just a few of what I heard. The girl is shocked beyond words as each day passes by she discovers a new meaning to the word cheap.
Wallah 7aram,,
What is the value of money if you can't use it, or spend it on your loved ones??!!!!
She is trying to suck it up but stingy-ness, as my mother say, has no cure!
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Regarding your guesses, and comments on the previous post:
The second anonymous, Noodie and Even Sweeter got it right. And Blah masha Allah knew 3ala 6ool once she read what my mother said.
I also give Anonymous 7 credit for knowing it was something related to money.
Nora, and the rest of you guys, well, there were some pretty wild guesses.
Better luck next time ;*
34 comments:
Oh god;\
Tell her et8eem el lail w lamen et9ali 9alat el weter 5aleeha tad3i ib esm allah el malek.
Allah yfarej hamha inshallah;*
Let her pray for him to change..
Ma3rouf ely e8oum el lail w yad3i ib esm allah el malek yostajab du3a2ah..
Can't believe people are getting worse by the day;\
That sounds like my ex-husband
istaghfarallah ya rabi..
bs im so happy i was mentioned ib your post ;*
-Anonymous 7.
maskeeeenah allah ye3eenha oo ye9aberha 3ala hal balwah ,, I know a girl etha shara toast befloosah she doesn't eat from it and vise virsa :( enshallah ye5treb el akil ma takel dam ma dafa3at 3alshan chithi she have to pay 1/2 price of chees toast cost 200 fils @@
I had the "left my wallet in the car" incident during milcha time, I FREAKED out! min seji 5ift. bs masken taly radhum ley o ta3athar.
girls should be more careful and pick such signs before it's too late.
allah yasle7a laha o0 yarzeqha ily feeh 5er allahuma aamen
Ma9adeeeeggg! Ma9adeeeggg!! Fe someone like that!!
Allah la yableena, sta'3ferallah, 7aram maskena!! Jad allah i3eenha.. Wth hes so freakin weird:s
OMG MA9ADIG!
st'3furallah yaa rabbyy! allahuma ajirna min ma ibtalaytahum!
mskeena wallah!
the issue that came to my mind is the problem with rushing into marriages, y3ni i'm so not against marriages in the traditional way however i believe that they the couple need to sit down and discuss things like this, 3ashan mayin9admoon fe ba3a'9 ba3dane.. thats what i think ...
:o :o :o :o ma3ndy ta3leeq lol
Laa 7araaam! :(
ana yom mlacht we started going out on little dates ana o zojy one time i was testing him shft these pair of shoes on one of the designer boutiques windows, o I was like "Oh...sooo cuute! mn zmaan adoor shy chthhee.." anyway mskeen needless to say he went in and got it for me so I had my validation. I totally agree with Noodie lazm the couple go out and sit together o y3rfoon ba3a'9hm 3ala el6abee3a.
Allah ysaberha. I hope it doesn't affect her badly.
Glitter, as a girl who's entered the age of marriage and who's "next" in the family, I'd really like to know from you and everyone else what these warning signs are. A lot of people talk about them, so how can you tell if something's a warning sign or not?? I think this is what I'm afraid of most and not looking forward to: missing a warning sign. For example this girl was too happy to notice at first, like you said. So how does one actually know...? x(
What's up in his mind!
el7md lella wel.shkr! rabbi la teblana!
allah y3eenha! He is unbelievable!
Glittera, Wayed egoulon ena el bnt ta5th waa7ed mthl oboha? Ana wayed asma3 hal ma8olah,w I always pray ena ma a5th wa7ed yshbah oboy
Especially considering the fact ena oboy 6abe3ta wayed 9a3ba I honestly believe ena if I ever get married to a man like him I won't be able to continue
What do you think?
-H
:o
allah esaberha..
well, at least i was close riiiight ;)
type up some more short stories pls, cause i honestly miss them. the other day, i reread your whole blog, yes every single post cause i missed it! mashallah you have a way to grab a readers attention and thats why i keep coming back to your blog. also, i couldn't help but notice some missing posts.. bas oh well, at least you didn't stop once and for all :)
and thank you so much for mentioning me in your post, ya bakhti wallah, now if you'll excuse me, i need to go tell the world ;p
N
Thank you dear,
I'll be sure to pass that msg on to her.
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Zabo06a
It's a good thing he's your EX now ;)
good riddance.
Anonymous 7
Well maybe if you comment more I would have mentioned you earlier ;)
Oh and bytheway,
7 is my favourite number :D
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Star
OH.MY.GOD
This is taking it to a whole new level!!!
7asbya Allah wa ne3ma alwakeel
Is she still with him?
Noora
Yummaa,
I would have freaked out too!!
El7amdlellah it all turned out ok for you ;***
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Anonymous 12/13/10 11:54 PM
Allah e3eenha!
I don't I would have continued with a man like that.
Noodie
I agree.
Never rush in marriage.
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Zuz
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PrimaDonna
I totally agree.
And I'm glad everything worked out well for you babe :)
Unfortunately, not everyone is that lucky!
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CL
First of all you should have a long engagement where you talk to the guy and get to know him.
Don't be blinded by the excitement of the new experience. open your eyes and ears to hints here and there. Things that you find weird or make you uncomfortable.
Things like how he feels about his family, how he is with his friends. Does he like going out? Does he like to travel?. How does he spend his time? How does he spend his money?..
Get all the little info and detail you can so you'll have an idea about his character.
My friend had the guy visit her and sat with him daily for SIX months before she even said YES to the Engagment.
Wishing you the best of luck :*
Seema*
al7amdlellah alf marra for I don't think i would have been able to suck it up.
Love you :*
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H
Oh my dear, that is not necessarily true!
X is nothing like my father, and I love them both very much.
My advice to you is when someone comes your way, you should spend all the time you need to get to know him inside out as best as you can before tying the knot.
Also ma nensa salat el estikhara, and God insha Allah will lead to the right path :***
Nora
ya bakhty ana wallah
*big BIG smile*
you comment made my day
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Love you
(hug)
o.0
that is just too much..
i agree on the warning signs, i did ignore some =p but al7amdulliah everything is ok and bad habbits has been erased from him =p
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there is a saying…(Ilbukhell 3ado almarjala)
I totally agree , walla mu rayal!
la laa ya glitter, esm7elee this is too much! waen akhish wayhe el7een ;p
wallah i shouldve come out of my shell and commented in your blog years ago huh ;)
and trust me when i say this, but your reply just made my day!
Standy
I'm glad things worked out for you :)
Allah yejma3 bainkom ib kel khair ya rab :*
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Ra-1
I know!
Sweeter
Sajjah, el bokhol 3ado el rejal, willa shlon Allah 7a6hom qawwameen 3alaina?!!
Rayyal ma yasref 3ala baitah o mortah sara7a mo rayyal.
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Nora
Just when I thought I couldn't possibly love you more when I read your first comment, you come now with another and make my night :D
Yes, you should have commented before so at least I know you existed!
Now please don't be a stranger and drop in a word every now and then, wallah inny estanast 3ala commentatich ;*
Thats why irasool 9alalah 3alayh wasalam ista3ath mn il bo5il!! اللهم انا نعوذ بك من الجبن والبخل
Thanks for the advice GG! I suppose one has to be sharp and a little bit critical; definitely not get carried away in the moment.
haha 7aaather! bas for now khalenee sakta la nglb a serious post into a chatroom ;p
البخل عدو المرجله اللدود -- اكره صفتين أمقتهم حيل أهما الجذب والبخل
beautiful drawings
Lala
Akrah shy el bokhol, even when you're rich, you live the life of the very poor.
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CL
Wishing you all the best my love :*
And keep me posted if anything happens with you ;)
Nora
;*
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