He's not kind, and definitly not gentle!
I take that back.
He is a good man, i will give him that.
But not unlike the enviroment we live in, he is a desert man.
Meaning he is dry, not soft and mellow.
3asaby, o 7aar.
And I hate that.
"It's so hot in here, and we still have a long time before you finish work and we get to tarvel for the summer. I'm thinking of visiting my parents in Lebanon for the weekend", I say while I'm brushing my hair.
"Malah da3y" he replies crisply.
"But whyyyy??" I whine. "I miss them, and it's only for three days!"
"And I say NO", his voice is rising alarmingly.
I slowly turn to look him in the eyes, preplexed.
"Why are you shouting? ", I continue calmly: "Can't we discuss this? "
"Ana gelt kelmity and there's nothing to discuss", he waves his finger at me: " I ORDER you not to go and that's the end of the subject"
He ORDERS me not to go?!!
Seriously?!!
I walk away fuming..
My blood is practically boiling..
And I sit down to my laptop to write this..
What will I do?
I still haven't figured that out.
21 comments:
i say order him back.
Bs sm3ay kalama cuz no way ra7 yertha !!
haw mo ibkayfa!! mnw yet7amal yg3ad ib hl 7ar! klha lebnan moo europe wala amreka! uhw dawam w 7ala w inty shtsaweeen ib 3umrch! waaaaaay tanarfazt:@
-purple
Glitter I don't know much about married life bas I know one thing never talk about ur relationship with ur husband. Mrt 5ali learned the hard way lama md7t rylha 3ind ilnas. I also remember her telling me later 6l3t ma3a my uncle oo shafat her friend.T5yly shgalat her friend? Galat haw 9arlkom less than a month married mmamdkom t6l3oon together. They got into a fight that night, my uncle oo mrta that is.
Egray 3ala ur self oo wait for him to cool down mt2kda enna he'll say yes sooner or later. ;) tc
No biggie.
6awfeha hal.marrah! :)
Just sit back and relax
life is too short to waste it on MEN!!!
No matter how kind/gentle/loving/caring/smart theyr were theyre still worthless 3ala kl il mshakil ilee ysbibonha!!
Sweetheart you got one all the way in kuwait and i got one all the way in Dubai..
my advice, is dont argue..hell come to you and will ask you to go..you just have to wait..go take a nice warm bath..fluff your pillows..sit back..watch your favorite show..
a little secret, guys egharoon min ahl il bnaya..they have this thing in their head that goes "if a girl is with her family she remember her single days o tet7asaf"..i was let in on this after multiple times of arguements and fights over me going away with my mom or sister on holiday..he always got his way but i eventually got mine..so just wait..
look on the bright side..he loves you and doesnt want to miss you therefore he doesnt want you going ;) always look at the positive side of things..for your sanity and the safety of your marriage :)
o asfa 3al garga..adri athetich lakin na9e7ti dont do anything..just wait :)
xoxoxo from dubai
la tradedenah... saway '7ather 3la amrik' o sakray il mawthoo3... he will appreciate it o next time when u ask for something he will say OK le anah his ego is satisfied inah if he says no mara7 itgoleen lah whyy o whyy
akrah ma 3la hal ryayel ilid3al inah itgoleen lah why... 7alhom 7al il yahal shinsaweee mini wel darb faj2a ye6angeroon... yama 3antart o gelt laish y3ni o esh7aga o give me one reason o mani fahma laish o waaaq o weeq o looyaaaa
3ogob ikteshaft inah ilee yarthee '3rorah il rjole oho inah in gal la2 ma itradedeena... reassurance of his power especially if he showed you kindess... o believe me he will repay you back for your "obedience" *rolls eyes*
b3dain fe a7temal inah ma ybi yegool inah ma ygdar yg3ad dgega bdoonich... makes him look weak :p fa sawaa si il sayed... ifhamee yakhti ba2ah ;)
ambaih latism3en kalam al.anonymous girls.
sim3ai kalama oo wait for him to relax ba3dain golila you dont wanna go etha ohwa mayabi bs 5alya36ich asbab, because you "just wanna know".
oh oo la t7sesina ena chinnich tistajwbina.
lol at danderma tawni ashouf.
5osh kalam;p
If only we had a Like button; it would go for Danderma.
mwwwwwwwwwwwwwah :* awesome!!!
1. He does not want to stay without you but can't seem to say it :)
2. Yabe kelmetah tamshe. This goes to MOST men - educated w razeneen, but this shi**y ego runs in their blood elthaher. Best way to deal with it (and excuse my vulgarity) is ekhtheeh 3ala gad 3aglah and let it pass. Right? What's this safra gonna cost you anyway if you went w za3al w kbarat el meshkela? Really, the man will flip and throw a tantrum chennich za33altay a teenager!! I know; I hate being controlled too. But you know what? You are still in control when you choose to let it pass and give it up to his ego :) Because that way are choosing to deal with it intelligently ..
blekh, I know I sound disgusting. It kills the fires in me when I think enne I am still on control. And so that perspective of it does it for me :)
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I don't know why men won't just grow up :(
Husban or not, never let a man "order" you, and you should make that clear to him.
Gigi, latradedeen!!! lemradaad yaqtel elrayaal fa egoom w3aned.
just drop it out wala ka'ena shay masaaar 5alee 3ala hawa ele tabe beseer give it try fad weya zainen 3ala zain mafaad esge men nafs ldwa ele ysgech mena
Alla ewafegkum wehanekum eb 3eshatkum;**
-S
I agree with all who say 'latradedeena'
I have seen many women y6algoun w el sba 'ma khalani a6la3 aw ma sharali aw ma wadani etc...'
latkhaleen Shay sa5eef i2ather ib 3la8atkum.
Adry I'm not married bs I have seen, listened and read many books..
http://oxymoronica-5.blogspot.com/
typical kuwaiti man response hehehe...bas la seriously listen to what he says o golela inshallah (although ana akbar im3anidchiya o nadir magolha ila blqa9ib) but i feel like hes goin to change his mind and agreees to letting u visit ur fam! goodluck:)
kalam first anonymous true..i learnt it the hard way and i have payed he price..i cant deny i love to read about ur relationship with ur hubby bs if u will irqay nafsich ilnas matir7am o maybe they dont even mean it..allah y7afithkum wiykhalekum 7g ba3ath o yib3id il3ain 3ankum:*
What Danderma said ;p
I say listen to him and he will appreciate it, maybe feel a little guilty and give in to your demand;)
Thank you all :*
D.
baby I love u :D
Wise beyond your THREE-OH year ;)
i think u should go put some eyeliner again ;P
hehe
Its Okay Glitter, Let this 1 pass :) He'll Come Around Sooner or Later !
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