عن حذيفة، أن النبي- صلى الله عليه وسلم- قال: ((إن المؤمن إذا لقي المؤمن فسلم عليه وأخذ بيده فصافحه تناثرت خطاياهما كما يتناثر ورق الشجر))ه
.
.
In 3aza, when I go to pay my respects, the most thing I dread is having to kiss all the people in line. I go to offer my condolences to a friend and I end up kissing all her family. LAISH?!
I remember when we had a 3aza of our own, I used to HATE it. People I know and don't know pull me close and shower me with kisses. And I grew tired of it, and somewhat disgusted to be honest.
My most annoying experiences is when they kiss you and blow on you, I mean they literally exhale while kissing and their breath just blows at the side of your face *shivers*
And when they kiss you and their cheeks are so moist with foundation it actually sticks to your face *yuck*
Oh, and some people even kiss you twice, bl dakhla o bl 6al3a :-(
I try to extend my arm to offer a handshake, but no they pull you o lazem they kiss you. AND I'M HERE TO TELL YOU TARA WALLAH MO LAZEM YOU KISS.
Mind you, I don't do that. I just offer my hand and sincere words of "3atham Allah ajerkom", or "3asa mathwah eljanna", o that's it.
So pls ppl,
A hand shake is enough,
so pls, just kiss and hug the person you came for, and as for the rest of the family a handshake is enough wallah.
No need to go on kissing the whole neighbourhood!
"La lil qubolaat, na3am lel mosafa7aat"
Aslun you get more ajer this way..
Who's with me?
.
.
25 comments:
okay 9ij bil 3aza, ana ma3ach.. and the blowing, lol ew.
i do shake hands quite a lot. i didnt think that i'd mind the kiss, but now, i think i'm gonna have to think it over!
hallelujah sista. i hate going to 3aza just because of that salfa! i dnt wanna kiss u! i wanna kiss rfeejti intay shaku?
Ehwa 9a7 bas el moshklaah lain etye el la7tha el 7asma madry mino abosah w mino ma abosah faa 7ade a5tB9 !
Sa3aat they even give you a look bas I never figured out etha m3naha boseny aw la etbusen.. Faa et9er esalfa el ma7thuutha tenbas :p!
2- ppl have VERY weird ways of kissing!
Jadd mara wa7da es7abat 5alte weg3adt etbusha ! Etgul 7asait el fa8rah el rab3aah eb thahry 6AGAT maskenahh!
W 5alte ethanya maskeena kanat 3ayzana chan etyeeha wa7da her bra lace minglib chan bel'3ala6 et3adlaa lahaa LOOOOOOL!!!!!!
El mawaaa8ef el '3areba ma te6la3 elaah bl 3azawat !
-H
i agree, ma7ib i kiss waiid nas oo akoun ma3arifhom. oo ma3arif shino netham albosat;p bosten bs or 4, 1 eb 9oob oo 3 eb 9oob or 2 9oob oo 2 9oob. 7alata 2, mara yemen mara yesar oo bs ;)
OMG OMG ... you are just like me... i hate kissing i hate it to the extreme and i am totally with you...
i so agree with you.. if i dont know and i just met WE REALLY DONT NeED TO BE KISING NOW DO WE??!!
or just coz you KNOW ME doesnt make it right eather!!!
I am with you all the way!!! Why spread germs to one's face? Hands are enough! The thing is that people may regard you as rude if you don't kiss. I wish that everyone starts knowing that a9l alsalam is in the handshake as you mentioned. People, let's accumulate more ajr; down with the kisses!
im definitely with u !
i HATE kissing !
You don't have to kiss.
I don't kiss people I don't know la'ena yakseron kha6re a7es khdod'hom teshallakhat. My good deed of the day is in sparing them my own khad at least. :)
With you qalban qaliban
And good morning to you Glitter el7ilwa
:D
S
Akeed you u would mind, coz I believe no one likes to rubs cheeck with sweaty moist faces and have their breath all across the side of your neck!!
+++
Lady GiGi
YES!
Khalas,
Let's start a campaign:
No more kissing bl 3aza
You tell your friends, and I'll tell mine. And hopefully one day, Kuwait will be 3aza kiss-free :D
+++
H
Hehehehe sajja wallah :*
Blah
tadreen I love you?
when I was all hesterical and deleting my posts I found that you commented on most of them, even posts that go a long way back...
taQabbalee Qubulaaati
:***********
+++
No Identity
HATE it HATE it HATE it
the only one I don't know in 3aza and i kissed was a lady that was holding wet tissues, so I couldn't bring myself to shake her germ-filled hands so I kissed her instead :-/
+++
Standy
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
My sentiments exactly.
So join us in our campaign to 3aza kiss-free for a better Kuwait :D
Lend me
YES!
Let's say it out and loud:
KISSING IS BAD, just SHAKE THE HAND.
+++
eshda3wa
ashwa fee a77ad nafsy :D
+++
Shalala
And a good and happy evening to you lovely Shalala.. :*
I agree,
It is a good deed indeed :)
I wish ppl thought of that and spared me all the kisses when we had our own 3aza :(
Laiman uboy allah yer7ema tewafa a couple of years ago, 7asait eb exactly what you're talking about. It was really bad! oo I'd like to add fe2at el nass eli laiman the kiss, their cheekbone hits yours and it hurts! Laishh el defasha! It was too tiring... and I too got disgusted mn el kissing! oo laish laiman en3azi a7ad lazem fe million wa7da wagfa! Just immediate family mafroth! tara ta3ab oo mala da3i..
tawna khal9een min 3aza one of my close family members
lawe3aw chboodna il nass o ohom y7abebona
some ppl metbakhren met3a6reen o kiss once... enough
others would hug you needlessly o cry their hearts out, saliva 3la tears 3la sweat 3la tight grip on ur neck and you cant breathe o it is so so SO disgusting! yoba ENOUGH!
needless to say after ppl leave we run and scrub our faces with dettol
o marat a person u dont know or ur sitting on the side 3shan terta7een... ityeech wa7da ma it3arfenha wala it3arfech, o togaf 3la rasich ila '3asob gomay babawsich! yoba ro7menee! i3taqene le wajh il allah 7ram 7raam! o in ma gemtay o just extended ur hand they would pull you up o kiss u '3asob
welle masha2 allah tenfa3 it9er mosare3 o crushes ur ribs
o the worst part is?
the daughter of the metwafya is young o in severe shock. ayon il nass o ask "where is the daughter?" o laman we point her out they hug her o scream or cry or say something that will send her off the edge and have her cry o we had to rush o calm her down. Eee laish y3ni? LAISH!
ohh I remember this one lady that used to visit us that would always put may ward madri dehin ward madri shino bthab6 on her cheeks bs it had rose in it.. wana kilish kilish my skin isnt sensitive :/ so hathy everytime she visits o kisses me my face goes into allergy frenzy mn khdaidat'ha :(
i used to dread her coming over la w shes the type ely one kiss takes five minute 3ala kil khaad! way3aa bs fokeny! laa w tboos w ehy dasha w ehy 6al3a :/
alah ysam7ich om lam3a u brought horrid memories back :/
waaaaay eee walah chaaan zain 9ij 9ij waaay chan zain makoo kissing 3laa 6ooool ana 3ndee mishklaa bl halsalfaaa loool
Totally in with you!
We should launch a campaign all over the Arab world P=
Glitter, do you have an email address? I have a problem and I'm hoping you and your readers can help me. I'm a long time reader of your blog and I'd love to have your insights about this relationship-related issue,being American in Kuwait, I can use all the help I can get...if so, please email me at americaninkuwait2009@yahoo.com
I am!!:p but it part of tradition to kiss and shake hands!
Danderma
Some ppl sij ma ykoon 3indehom ay e7sas, offfff >:-(
+++
FourMe
Mayward will SALIVA??
I have this old realtive, maskeena mn zod ma te7ebny, lazim my face gets saliva WET mn her kisses..
*shivers*
New
ee ya rait elnas yeba6loon hal salfa :-/
+++
UAEya
Yallah,
let's get the idea out
o inshaAllah in time all will adopt it and let go of kissing *wishful thinking*
+++
American
Sure :-)
red.glitter@hotmail.com
I'll be waiting ofr your email :-*
+++
Summer
Let's change tradition and make history ;-)
Hehe, I've been confussed about it too.
People usually kiss to show their love. If so, then WHY ON EARTH do I have to kiss a person a don't even know? ;P
I agree with you! ; )
nice post. thanks.
Seema*
Absolutely! :D
+++
Anonymous
:-)
timesb breaching tetel inoperable defined aggregate object respiratory minorities examine synergizing
servimundos melifermuly
Post a Comment